I REALLY NEED SOME ANSWERS, MY SON IS 17YRS . HE HAS BIPOLOR,ADHD, I WOULD SIT HERE ALL DAY AND TELL YOU THINGS WRONG WITH HIM, BUT HE HAS A BIG HEART, AND OVER EVERY THING HE IS A GOOD KID. WHEN HE WAS 14YRS HE WAS HAVEING SOME TROUBLE IN SCHOOL. AND THINGS JUST GOT WORSE, SO HE GOT SENT OFF TO A  PLACE CALLED RYDC. I REALLY DON,T WONT TO GIVE THE NAME OF THE PLACE TIL I TALK TO SOME ONE.HE HAD NEVER EVEN SPENT THE NIGHT AWAY FROM HOME BEFOR. SO HE WAS SCARED TO DEATH.HE WAS THERE 9MONTHS. IT WAS REALLY BAD THERE, IT,S A SAD PLACE FOR KIDS. DON,T GET ME WRONG I KNOW WHEN KIDS GET IN TROUBLE THEY HAVE TO BE PUT SOME WHERE. BUT COME ON PEOPLE, THESE ARE OUR CHILDREN. AND ALL MY SON DID WAS NOT GO TO SCHOOL. THEY WOULD TAKE HIS FOOD FEED HIM A SANDWICH 1TIME A DAY IN 3MONTHS HE LOAST ABOUT 30 POUNDS THEY WOULD TAKE HIS CLOTHS, AND MAKE HIM SLEEP IN THE COLD HALL IN THE WINTER. ONE TIME THEY MADE HIM TAKE SOME KIND OF PILL THAT WASN,T HIS. TOLD HIM IF HE DIDN,T TAKE IT THEY WOULD HOLD HIM DOWN AND PUT IT DOWN HIM. ONE OF THE GARDS PUT HIS HEAD THREW A WALL, IT WAS HELL. ABUT I WOULD CALL MY SON. AND THEY WOULDN,T LET ME TALK TO HIM, BECAUSE HE WOULD TELL ME WHAT THEY WHERE DOING TO HIM. THIS IS A PLACE WHERE PEOPLE PUT THERE KIDS WHO DON,T WONT THEM. AND IF YOU HAVE A CHILD IN THIS KINK OF PLACE PLEASE CHECK ON THEM, IT,S BEEN TWO YRS AND MY SON IS STILL HAVING NIGHTMARES ABOUT THIS. AND I CAN THINK ABOU IT AND GET UPSET. THERE IS SO MUCH GOING ON IN THESE PLACES THERE THERE TO HELP OUR CHILDREN, AND TO BRING THEM HARM. MY SON TRYED TO KILL HIS SELF 3 TIMES. I COULD GO ON AND ON ABOUT THIS HELL MY SON WAS IN BUT IT WOULD TAKE ALL DAY . I JUST WISH THERE WAS SOME WAY TO HELP THESE OTHER CHILDREN THERE.  

I,m sorry for what you are going threw. but you can,t give up, there are so many babys that need a good home, and you seem very young, when the time is right god will bless you with a child. just keep your faith and you will be in my prayers,

the world sits around and wonders what is wrong with our children, you wont to know whats wrong with them, they are brought in these world us telling them to not hate, care for every one and whats happenns to them when they need some one to care for them, there is no one there, my son really needs help with getting a lawyer. and he is only 15yrs, and having to pay child suppourt to a 19yr woman who we don,t even kknow if the children is his, i am on SSI and can not pay for a lawyer, and no one even offers to help. my son is the victom, and he is the one having to pay. no i take that back because he has ADHD and BIPOLOR and depresson, and i only get $600 a month to live on, and i have to pay the childsuppourt. $40 a week so we bouth are the vitcoms. could some one please help us. how you you ack if it was your son? and please don.t say it would never happen to you, because i said the same thing. please at lease think about how you would feel, thank you and god bless you
IF IT WAS YOUR CHILD.HOW WOULD YOU FEEL

I know what you are going threw, my husband walked out on me and my son 9 years ago, i still have panic attacks, i have bipoler and so does my son, i had to stop work, you just feel dead inside, you don,t wont to get up you can,t eat. and if you haven,t been there than no one is going to understand, it,s been 9 years for me and i am still alone. i don,t think i could ever trust another man because i lived for my husband i didn,t have a life, he was my like, i know you don,t beleave it right now, but put your faith in god, and he will get you threw this me and my son live on ssi, because i had to go on disibley, every month i wonder how we are going to make it. but god always show me away, half the time, i can,t pay some of my bills.i have anxiety so bad that it makes me sick. but some how i do get threw it and i know god will sent me some help to pay my bills off, but you have got to get you some help. and yes counseling, and Klonopin will help you i have to take them and a depperson meds, but i know things one day will get better, god bless you.

thank you for caring, no one has even read my letter, i have been to the police, and child support,and they are saying i have to get a lawyer, i have talked to legal aid and they say they do not take these kind of case, beleave me i have talked to every person i can and they are all saying the same thing, get a lawyer. when we first went to court i tryed to tell them my son is only 16, at the time she got preagent he was 15 and she was 18. the judge would not even hear eny thing i had to say. they told me if i kelp talking they would make me leave the court room, but i will keep trying i love the babys they are twins.and i do beleave they are my grandbabys. but if we are having to pay we should be able to see them.i could walk to there house and thats how close they are, but thank you for your thoughts and prayer, if we don,t stand up for our children no one will. the Gov sure don,t care. God bless you and your three girls. keep them salf

every one be on the look out for scam, there is some one who calls his self Dr Roy. who sent me a check to help with my son. and it cleared the bank but some how the bank got the check back and now i am worse off than i was when i started, i should have new better,but the bank run it threw for 8 days, and they said it was good. so i took the money to help my son, and now the bank is saying i owe them $4000,dollers i am on soical seurity, i can not pay that kind of money. this man he is on earthlink and alo and yahoo as murrayivor,so be on the look out for him i know i was dum beleaveing there is some one out there that could care about helping me, i don,t wont this to happen to you keep me in your prayers.

PLEASE STOP HURTING USE, I ONLY WISH THAT PEOPLE WOULD STOP SAYING THEY WILL HELP AND THEY NEVER DO I ONLY WISH THEY COULD BE IN MY PLACE FOR ONE DAY, AND SEE WHAT IT,S LIKE TO MAKE A PROMISE TO HELP YOU, TELL YOU THEY SENT YOU A CHECK, AND HAVE YOU LOOKING AND HOPEING THE MAIL WOULD COME EVERY DAY, BUT THE CHECK, NEVER DOES, WHAT DOES PEOPLE GET OUT OF HURTING SOME ONE THAT IS ALL READY IN PAIN, IF YOU DON,T WONT TO HELP SOME ONE IN NEED THAN DON,T. BUT PLEASE STOP HURTING PEOPLE, BY TELLING THEM YOU SENT THEM A CHECK IN THE MAIL. WHEN YOU KNOW TOU HAVEN,T.

PLEASE STOP HURTING USE, I ONLY WISH THAT PEOPLE WOULD STOP SAYING THEY WILL HELP AND THEY NEVER DO I ONLY WISH THEY COULD BE IN MY PLACE FOR ONE DAY, AND SEE WHAT IT,S LIKE TO MAKE A PROMISE TO HELP YOU, TELL YOU THEY SENT YOU A CHECK, AND HAVE YOU LOOKING AND HOPEING THE MAIL WOULD COME EVERY DAY, BUT THE CHECK, NEVER DOES, WHAT DOES PEOPLE GET OUT OF HURTING SOME ONE THAT IS ALL READY IN PAIN, IF YOU DON,T WONT TO HELP SOME ONE IN NEED THAN DON,T. BUT PLEASE STOP HURTING PEOPLE, BY TELLING THEM YOU SENT THEM A CHECK IN THE MAIL. WHEN YOU KNOW TOU HAVEN,T.

PLEASE STOP HURTING USE, I ONLY WISH THAT PEOPLE WOULD STOP SAYING THEY WILL HELP AND THEY NEVER DO I ONLY WISH THEY COULD BE IN MY PLACE FOR ONE DAY, AND SEE WHAT IT,S LIKE TO MAKE A PROMISE TO HELP YOU, TELL YOU THEY SENT YOU A CHECK, AND HAVE YOU LOOKING AND HOPEING THE MAIL WOULD COME EVERY DAY, BUT THE CHECK, NEVER DOES, WHAT DOES PEOPLE GET OUT OF HURTING SOME ONE THAT IS ALL READY IN PAIN, IF YOU DON,T WONT TO HELP SOME ONE IN NEED THAN DON,T. BUT PLEASE STOP HURTING PEOPLE, BY TELLING THEM YOU SENT THEM A CHECK IN THE MAIL. WHEN YOU KNOW TOU HAVEN,T.

hi Lulu, i really could us your help with getting a loan, i have never got a lone befor, , I need to borrow money for a lawyer, and i hurt my back at work and i have bipoler and so does my son, but i have worked with hospice, for the last three years, i have been a cna for 31 yrs, and it really hurts when you don,t have eny money coming in I get SSI $600 amoth, but thats all i have, my son girlfrien got preagent he is 17 and she is 19, and the court order child support, and my son can,t pay it so i have to and the court will not let us see the babys no DNA test was done. i really need a lawyer, i live in GA, my credits no good, i am a singel mom, P/s i love your flowers

hi Lulu, i really could us your help with getting a loan, i have never got a lone befor, , I need to borrow money for a lawyer, and i hurt my back at work and i have bipoler and so does my son, but i have worked with hospice, for the last three years, i have been a cna for 31 yrs, and it really hurts when you don,t have eny money coming in I get SSI $600 amoth, but thats all i have, my son girlfrien got preagent he is 17 and she is 19, and the court order child support, and my son can,t pay it so i have to and the court will not let us see the babys no DNA test was done. i really need a lawyer, i live in GA, my credits no good, i am a singel mom, P/s i love your flowers

hi Lulu, i really could us your help with getting a loan, i have never got a lone befor, , I need to borrow money for a lawyer, and i hurt my back at work and i have bipoler and so does my son, but i have worked with hospice, for the last three years, i have been a cna for 31 yrs, and it really hurts when you don,t have eny money coming in I get SSI $600 amoth, but thats all i have, my son girlfrien got preagent he is 17 and she is 19, and the court order child support, and my son can,t pay it so i have to and the court will not let us see the babys no DNA test was done. i really need a lawyer, i live in GA, my credits no good, i am a singel mom, P/s i love your flowers

I am so sorry this happen to you, I know how you feel. my son is 16. and has biploer, ADHD and has tryed to kill his self a frew times, he had a friend who was 18, she got preagent, and took my son to court, said things about him that i know was a lie and now we are not able to see the baby and the court order my 16yr to pay child support, and he is not able to work, I am on SSI and have to pay it or my son goes to jail I have been trying to get help with a lawyer,so good luck. no one wonts to help our children, but if we lived in another country, the Gov would help. and thats just not right, they should have locked that boy up and threw away the key, you will be my prayers, stay strong for your son.

I am so sorry for what you are going threw, i wish i could help, but i am a singel mom who is on SSI, but you have something very special. your child you are in our prayers, keep smiling. never let your child see you hurting God bless you.

Dear mom of three, thank you for your help, i love your flowers, i will go to these sits, and see what in can find i live in a little town called calhoun ga, and i dont really have much schooling, and i am kind of dum when it comes to things like this but we can,t give up on our children. thank you again God bless you.